Hi,
your stretched HCI Mesh cluster would consume storage provided by your stretched vSAN cluster.
So if one side/DC of your stretched cluster went down/offline only the storage (and vSAN objects) which reside on the surviving side would be accessable.
If you properly configure the SPBMs any VM running on nodes located at the surviving side wouldn't be impacted.
All other VMs would crash (due to total outage including CPU, RAM, network & storage) and should be restarted on the surviving side.
May I ask why you created such a small stretched cluster which should than also act as HCI Mesh provider?
With 3 nodes per side you're limited to MIR only, with 4 nodes (or more) you could use EC (if running AFA nodes).
Hope this helps a bit.
Greetings from Germany. (CEST)