I have completed a default install of VMware ESXi 5 today. Everything seems to work, except that the VM's can only ping the host machine. The VM's cannot ping any machine on the subnet (i.e. any machine not a guest of the ESXi server), nor can they be reached by any machine on the same subnet.
To summarise:
1. Standard install (single nic)
2. VM's can ping host
3. VM's cannot ping (or be pinged by) other non-VM's.
4. VM's can ping each other.
5. VM's do not pick up DHCP external to ESXi server.
I am thinking something similar. The device's setup screens are only accessible from the cabled side. So, to prevent access from the wireless side, I think it needs to spoof the ARP table somehow. The AP itself, has very little in the way of options, so I think I will need to hardwaire the connection using CAT5.
I hardwired this today with CAT5 and it has resolved the issue.